I, as a Paralegal assisted over one thousand divorces. I cannot and will not give legal advice but I can share some of my information. We all need to have our feelings validated and during the tangled emotions of divorce, we want to feel we are not alone. This book is meant to promote awareness and expand your emotional journey. Intrusions usually go away, they leave eventually and if we are lucky and smart, we move on. Hopefully this book will help you to realize you can move on. This is not a self-help book nor a how-to book about what to do or what not to do. It is a collection of case histories and my own interpretations of human behavior. I have included some fictional case histories to illustrate reality.